Dussehra Todayyyy :-) , Wish u happy dussehra

It was Dussehra today, i wish all my friends and peers Happy DUSSEHRAAA
Dussehra, A festival signifying the victory of Truth... A Festival of justice , honour and pride for the ppl who live on principles. Historically Dussehra is celebrated for the Victory of Lord Ram over RAVANA. The day signifies many things, it tells us about things like :

1. Truth
   
2. Justice
   
3. Patience
   
4. Loyality
   
5. Sustainabilty
   
6. Belief
   

Many of the things from the history are sensed in present too, at times we find our small bad deeds working and incorporate them as our principals... we tend to forget tht the truth prevails.. A lie has got a shorter life cycle.. Chalo, its on every individual to decide his fate...

Well, the style of writing has already hinted u tht i am in a mood of making longgggggg boring talkkkkkk, writin the final post of the day... Its 2140 HRS, IST , i am wrting the post while watching RAMAYANA on NDTV , so Dussehra Effect is very fresh in my mind :-), dont mind if i again start talking abt the same... I like to do so, I have been watching this series of RAMAYANA  and finding it too interesting, i can sacrifice my fans and tubelights to switch on my pc for it(in  case there is no light, common problem of my city...) 

While walking with my pet in evening, my regular job, i meet several kind of creatures( some homo sapiens, some Canis Familaris and Felis Catus :-)) ... This is the most refreshing time, i get ample of ideas in this hour... But yesterday , i had a tussle with one of our neighbours, my pet has a regular habit of unrooting grass :-) , specially the grass which is well organized and maintained... A lady came out of tht house to complain, she was angry and started shouting... as it was dark , i just couldnt understand who the lady was, I said her " Sorry Aunty", she further got angry,rather fully aggressive.. I said, Please sorrryyy aunty, nothing has been done yet... she said tht bringing the pet here is not a problem , but the problem is .. she was a young lady and i called her AUNTY... :-):-):-):-) , well , an important reason to get annoyed, ab mujhe koi uncle kahega to gussa aayegaa hiiiiiii......

Today , on the go, during the walk , i got an idea to make the blog meaningful with the following things:

1. Segregating the data and pakau stories
2. Keeping the track of one news regularly
3. Involving u guys more( why not to have some posts from ur side, u can be a contributor too.. saara kaam main karun kyaaaaa???????)

Well , i have made few changes in the blog, one by adding labels, one by adding unique search and other is the live TRAFFIC feed... U'll find these features interestingggggg.....

As i was getting very eager on dieting, i have been getting many queries if it has benefitted me or not... well the answer is .... " Blogger.com has rejected my latest photo as it has got a bigger size and weight"...Salad partyyy program is on,, keep readin its conditions, i m available as a guest for every salad partyyy...

Statistics getting bit poor for site,slow updates from my side and seems tht u guys are busy too... :-) ,chalo no prob, i m sure, abt few regular visitors.. i m tracking stats regularly....

 

Something very important for us... TO  CONTROL ANGER...

CONTROL ANGER B4 it CONTROLS u

Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problems—problems at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life. And it can make you feel as though you're at the mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion. 

Many of us at times have been upset. Being upset is a part of life. Not all things will go the way you want them to go. When this upset turns to anger we must be careful how we handle ourselves.

Here are 4 steps to control your anger and have it vent in proper ways.

1. Count to 10 when you are getting upset. This is a normal way that we have all heard. We have heard it because it works if you practice it. Count to 10 and you may solve many of your outbursts before they happen.

2. Do something that is physically exerting. Instead of punching a wall or a person, go run around the house, or mow the yard. Go for a walk, swim, bikeride, or shoot someone :-)( Kiddin)

This can provide a physical outlet for your emotions.

3. Find something that is calming. Try deep breathing from your diaphragm. 

Take 10 deep calming breaths. This can be very soothing for most people. Combine this with step 1 and count to 10 slowly while breathing.

4. Use “I” statements instead of “you” statements. I am frustrated because you didn’t help with the housework, instead of You didn’t help me with the housework. This helps in multiple ways one is your way of thinking is a bit better and you also do not upset the other person so that both parties are angry. Which of course is not a good outcome for anyone.

You can combine multiple steps above to help alleviate anger.

Still not able to controllll ??? Visit my blog... :-) and add a comment.. i'll get it done...