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Give reasons to smile :-)

Everyone in his life has a wrap of worries and concerns, Someone is worried for his career, someone has a family related issue, lot many are strucked in business, few are just too busy with the tension of studies, a lot many are busy with the tensions in friendship and amongst the friends... In my opinion, giving others a reason to worry is an easy task, it takes just fw minutes to hurt anyone, slap him, hit him, say him something undesired, it'll solve the purpose...

but for spreading smiles something extra needs to be done.. it is difficult to manage tears than to bring them from someone's eyes. its too difficult to make others laugh from the heart...

Looking at few of my peers ( not my close ones frm instt) , i find ppl changin for their parents, why do we tend to forget them ? when we grow? , why our friends become more important in a way tht they take a pie from the share of our moms and dads.. how many times do we think before saying a lie to our moms and dads. Hw do we forget them , their 20 years for us, while taking a single decision??, If it was their duty?? when are we going to fulfil our duties?? why the work personal comes ?? when it comes to telling them abt our life??
WHY NOT TO GIVE THEM A REASON TO SMILE??? WITH OUR FRIENDS, THEY ALSO DESERVE THIS KIND OF APPRAISAL FROM US.
THEY DESERVE TO BE AS SPECIAL AS OUR FRIENDS ARE FOR US..


Well, i m writing after a longgg time... the regularity factor got missin some where in my "not so" busy schedule due to laziness... :-) , i rate my week as a great week, i am happy with the way things perked up for my peers, october is surely greattt...

The first session of salad party took place on 15th at my home itself, when i had the birthday boy wth me, It was really dieting supportive party ,The food had all ingredients which would help me in making me a cube :-) from square.. :-) :-( :-(

The week started with TTPs and ended with the same.. ( refer earlier posts for TTP:))...

Wish u a greattt day...

Be blessed... Happy 18th October

Comments

Unknown said…
yes parents are special as friends are....but parents dnt understand sometimes what a friend may understand in some cases.......if we say truth to our parents, if then also dey dnt understand and scolds us......then what to do......
Ankit Gupta said…
In my opinion, parents are as understanding as friends...

we are supported by friends because we are transparent to them, if we incorporate the same degree to transparency to them, they'll be supportive,ofcourse ideologies dont match always, ofcourse there is a degree of risk in tellin and acceptance, but hinting them will never allow us to be far from them..!!
Ankit Gupta said…
And my opinion is not universal :-):-)... so dont mind...
jags said…
yes u r rgt.....
wile rdn ur post i jst rmbr d msg we usd 2 frwd each odr agn n agn but widout gng thru it wholhrtdly........
-----wen a son/daughter z few yrs old..n trng 2 spk....only his/her mom undrstnds....n aftr sum years wen he/she cud spk crctly.....he/she used 2 say,,,,,mom u can't undrstnd.....
M_U_K_U_N{U_V} said…
yes sir i agree with ur comment..
the only barrier is that we keep scerets from them which are the real parts of our lifes..


Love u MOM, DAD and my DIDA..
jags said…
no doubt we nd 2 rise wid d wrd.....wid a mindblowing spd.......but 4 dis rsn 2 4get,our fmly,frnds,,,,,,n ol odrs .....is nthn mor den i mst sae
BEWAFUFI
M_U_K_U_N{U_V} said…
Meri party maine NOV me schedule ki hai tab aapko salad party ke req. nahi hogi salad party only for oct. month tha :)
jags said…
aur agr frnds ki bt kre to...........
mujhe ni lgta ki koi aisa dost ho skta h jo tumse tumhre parnts se jyda pyr kr ske........

ho skta h aaj tumhe kisi k bre me aisa fl hota ho....but soon u wl rlse ki parents ki jagah koi nhi le skta...

bt excptns r evrywr....agr sach me koi h jo tumhri cre krta h to ......d prsn wl surely hlp u 2 cvr d dis b/w u n ur prnts........

i think.....prnts r d bstst frnds 1 mae hav.....
Chaho To Aazma k Dekh Lo......
Ankit Gupta said…
Well said... rightly said..!!!

Friends can be good.. they can be placed at a place parallel to parents... definitely nt above them..
Ankit Gupta said…
They have attributes of God...

I dont say anyone to avoid talking to friends.. all i would theorize is.. " Make parents ur friends and keep them on the same parameter"
Ankit Gupta said…
Haanji sir... Salad partyyy over... i'll take a great bash frm u..!!
Ankit Gupta said…
Exceptions are there jagriti.. i know... i second u in this regard.. i feel tht the friends can take a new pie or share frm ur life, they are not the replacements to old realations.. believe in making new relations , but not at the cost of old ones
Ankit Gupta said…
Mukun.. i m ready for partyyyyyyy
Anonymous said…
yes...rite.... agree wid u Jags..
Parents r our bestest frndS....hum unse kabhi bhi kuch bhi share kar sakte hain..
Anonymous said…
aur Parents jo bhi khte hain...usse hamara achha hi hota hai...sooner or later..

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